Don't butt into other's business

Husband: I wouldn't do it if I were you.
Wife: do what?

Husband: meddling in other's business.
Wife: I just try to help

Husband: You help enough
Look what you have done
They were a great couple
Wife: yea, they were a great couple.
I think she should say what she wants

Husband: How do you know what she want?
Wife: Of course I know.
She should be able to do whatever she wants

Husband: You don't know what she want
Wife: I know what's the best for her

Husband: You do !
You must be the god.
Wife: She needs ijndependence.
She needs to go out and doing thing herself.

Husband: She was happy before.
Now look what you have done
Wife: She was in the dark
I help her to see the light

Husband: Don't you think that she might be better off livng in a world where she's happy with.
Noooo, you prefer to open the light and destroy the old beautiful world.
Wife: What world? Her world was crummy to say the best. She doesn't have any say. She just stay home and doing nothing. She needs to go out and do what she likes

Husband: Tell me. How do you know that she's not happy to stay home? She seems pretty happy to me. Now what did you say to her?
Wife: nothing. (pause)
I just thought that she should find other hobby besides her husband and her home. I told her that you can't depend on your hubby all the time. You should have a life of your own. It's for your own good.

Husband: so why is she crying? shy is he yelling?
Wife: He didn't give her space. That's why. He should give her space.

Husband: yea, she find her space alright. She find her other interest alright. She find other man as well. Is what you call SPACE? You're breaking up a good marriage, woman. Is this called happiness?
Wife: (silence)

Husband: Don't ever meddle with other's life.
Wife: (small voice) I just try to help...

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Focus on yourself and your family...

Move forward my friend

David Shen

Talent and interest

Talent and interest. You're lucky if you find both talent and interest. But, don't be despair. Find the talent 1st and use it every day. Gradually, interest will come later..

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jobs

If you change jobs every year, it's simply mean that you need to think the ideal job environment.

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A boy name Hunk

A boy name Hunk

Hunk wants to climb the mountain one day. It's a high mountain. He starts with walking. His friend, Tom, soon to join him. They talk and they laugh. It's a beautiful day.

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We all begin with walking, singing and laughing.

Add value

Add value each day
Add value each way

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move forward

You have all the resources you need to accomplish whatever you want.

Add value

Add value each day
Add value each way

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Curious

Have you ever noticed that you will jump up at certain moment?

Do we need to notice these moments and walk around it or do we need to change how we feel about those moments?

This is the question that I have in my mind for today...

The question sounds a bit confusing because I am still trying to figure it out myself..

It seems that life is like a big circle. You will eventually walk back to the same point. I plan to make this circle bigger so I'll try different thing and achieve my goal and walk back to the same point 10 years later rather than 2 weeks later.

In order to walk a bigger circle, I probably needs to change how we feel about those moments rather than walk around it? What do you think?

Oh, by the way, I am not selling anything. I am just in the discovery mode....

Well, have a wonderful day

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Talent

If you want to have fun in your life, spend at least 30 minutes on your talent each day.

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Pay attention

"What's show up for life", asks the kid.

"Show up for life simply means you know the most important thing in your life. Whatever you do, you spend time for the most important thing in your life." says the mom.

Play

"Whats show up for life" asks the kid?

"Show up for life is if you're playing, you're playing. If you're doing your home work, you're doing your home work.", says the grandpa.

Talent

"What's show up for life"? asks kid?

"show up for life is to use your talent once every day and hopefully in the process add value to others." says the Dad

working hard

"What's working hard?" says the child

"It simply means find something easy to do and do it every day" says Daddy

"then, it's no longer working hard." says the little child

"since it's so easy, a lot of people tend to forget to do the easy thing after a week." says Daddy

"so, what kinds of things are easy for you? :)" says Daddy

"well, I think writing is easy.. " says the little one

"then, you should write something every day.." says Daddy

Talent

"What's open-mindedness?" asks the child

"You got to include those things that you have talent but zero interests." says the wise old man..

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Sometimes, it's better to spend 50% on something that you have talent with rather than 100% on something that you have interest but no talent.

Airplane

"What's open-mindedness?" says the child

"If you know what you want and wants it bad enough, you're open-minded to all possibility that reach your goal.", says the big brother.

"What are you talking about?" says the child

"Have you ever want anything bad enough?" asks the big brother?

"Oh, yea. I want to have the airplane. Would you like to buy it for me, brother.." says the child

"ok, you're quite open-minded about asking me, Dad and Mom to get the airplane. If we say no, what else are you going to try?" says the big brother?

"well, I'll ask grandpa. I think grandpa will definitely buy the airplane for me?" says the child.

"You might be right. But, grandpa is on vacation right now. Have you ever considered selling Lemonade, washing our family car or cleaning the house to raise the money for your airplane? " says the big brother.

"Man, it takes too much work. I think it's faster to get airplane from grandpa than the extra chores around the house... :) I'll keep this option open in case grandpa says no to my airplane." says the child

"You're open-minded now. " smiles the big brother

Destination

"What is open-mindedness", ask the child.

"You have all possibilities" says the Dad.

"Once you set your mind to a goal. You have millions of ways to reach that goal. You use everything you got to reach it. "

"You're in a place where it only has 2 things, you and your destination. You can see your destination and you can choose any route to reach the destination. You run toward to the destination. Deep in your heart, you know one day you will reach it."

Love ones

"What's open-mindedness" says the child?

"If it adds value to people you love, you got to be open-minded." says the 79 years old grandma.

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The road

"What's open-mindedness?", ask the child.

"You're walking on a road and it divides into 3 different directions. If someone puts a big rock near the junction so you can't go any further. Then, it's no longer open-mindedness.", says the 80 years old grandpa.

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If the subject impacts your love ones, think about it before you choose to be open-minded or close-minded.

Think...

You don't have to be open minded all the time, but you got to know the impact of your belief to your love ones.

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Family

Look around, which family would you consider the best?

It seems to me that if a husband and a wife love each other, they're the best family.

"No, you're wrong." says my friend.

You got to look from a whole family. How are the children doing? If this family is the best family, every one in the family is doing well.

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The opionion

"I know I am good" says Bill
"You don't need to fight about it" says his friend